Archive for the 'society' Category

07
Jul
09

This story makes my blood boil

I love the town where I live (Alamo, CA).  It’s a peaceful, picturesque, charming town… of course it is also one of the most affluent areas in the East Bay Area [we rent our house].  I could totally imagine raising well-adjusted, happy children in this area.  Generally speaking, Alamo residents are friendly, smart, progressive and successful (duh!)

So no one was more shocked than me when I heard the following story which occurred at a park less than 1/2 mile from my house.

One of Lucy’s favorite pups on the trail is a gorgeous chestnut colored pit bull named Rocky.  We see Rocky and his mom running the trail pretty much every morning.  Rocky’s mom & I let the pups off leash and while they chase each other around and around, we get a chance to catch up for a bit.

Rocky’s mom (shameful that I don’t know her name, but I will refer to her as RM going forward) is a petite, stunningly beautiful, dark-skinned Brazilian gal.

We ran into the duo this past Saturday and, as usual, stopped to chit-chat.  RM seemed pretty distressed, but I’m not one to pry.  Finally she unloads this story that left me completely shocked.

Apparently RM took her 9 year old son and two 7 week old pit bulls who she was babysitting to the Hap Magee park in Alamo recently.

They were tooling around the park, baby pit bulls on leash.  RM’s son ran off as 9 year old boys do.  So RM got a bit distracted and in the confusion, the puppies got loose… as puppies do.

Well….  a group of 15 people were picnicking/bbqing at the park and where do you think the baby pit bulls went?  … you got it… straight to the yummy smelling BBQ beef.

Turns out baby pit bulls found the 15 assholes that live in Alamo.

RM ran immediately over to the scene of the crime, apologizing, trying to grab the babies who are at this point chewing on tasty prime rib (LOL, sounds like the scene from a Will Farrell comedy, huh?)  Here is where reasonable people would realize that this poor woman was trying her best to grab  hold of her puppies and avoid a major conflict.  But NO.  Instead, privileged, affluent, entitled white person mentality kicked in and the group decided to make RM’s life even more miserable.

The leader of the crew, a 6’5″ white dude decided that the situation called for him to start kicking the <10 pound pups and he started screaming at RM to “go back to the ghetto”.  OMFG (just breathe).  The others in the group decided to call 9-1-1.  (REALLY? pathetic is the word that comes to mind).

Cut to the Danville police (they probably have nothing better to do) who rush to the group asking, “where’s the pitbull?”  No doubt expecting to see some 60+ pound beast in the vicinity.  Clearly our fine diners had no sense of embarrrassment when RM displayed the “vicious pitbulls in question”… weighing all of 10 pounds apiece.

Needless to say, the Danville police told RM to go home and relax. RM, bless her heart, told the police that she wanted to press charges for animal cruelty.  Apparently the police told her, “it just isn’t worth it”.  So she went home.

I am stunned.  There are so many things I could rant about: the baby pitbulls, the 9 year old son who has to experience racial discrimination for the first time, etc, etc.  simply SICK.

The reality is if said picnickers had been reasonable people, RM would have gone to the store to purchase them a boat load of meat to replace whatever meat the babies had eaten, done whatever was needed to remedy the situation.  Instead, they chose to be jackasses and flaunt their ugly, entitled selves…  in the process tainting the beautiful community which is Alamo, CA.

05
Apr
08

The power of the ‘net

I am following a discussion list thread on my favorite social networking site, Yelp. I think I’m addicted to this freaking site, but that is the topic for another blog entry. : )

Yelp has this feature called, “talk”. Anyone who is a Yelp member (free of course) can post topics for discussion, open to public viewing and response by other members. I love it. I have seen some random posts like, “what should I cook for dinner?”, “Things to say to the UPS man” or even a recent post, “I just got dumped via text message”. I find myself getting sucked into the most obscure topics of discussion. It fascinates me the power of the internet to facilitate such discussions and of course the key driver here is that folks aren’t “discussing” face-to-face.

As such, you can imagine there are many pretty risque conversations which develop….

A couple of weeks ago, a woman posted a talk entry titled, “Help find Bongo!! Please!!”. With your profile, you can include a picture and next to this woman’s entry displayed the most adorable fluffy white with black patches dog. Naturally, I had to read the thread.

Apparently this woman went on a trip to Florida. Her dog, Bongo, missing her so, went on a mission to find her. She learned that the dog had run away while away in Florida. Feeling helpless 3000 miles away, she posted on Yelp to request the assistance of other San Franciscan Yelpers to aid in her search. This posting triggered hundreds of Yelpers to respond, offer condolences, and promises to help find Bongo. I added my two cents: something along the lines of, “as a dog owner, my heart goes out to you… blah blah blah”.

I found myself continually searching for the thread to see if any new updates had emerged. It almost became an obsession. And I wasn’t alone, I started to see the same members writing in snippets of good thoughts and suggestions, “put up fliers at all of the dog parks”, “Bongo will be back, keep the faith”.

Although I’m sure Bongo’s mommy will not be content until Bongo is safe and sound at home, but I’m sure it must be a great feeling to continually receive such support.

The other day, I found a new feature on Yelp Talk!…. it’s a little check box for each topic enabling you to be emailed anytime a new entry is posted. Nice! So, I added checked the box for Bongo’s thread. Now I get the replies sent directly in my inbox.

Now, every time I get a message from Yelp re: “Help Find Bongo!!” I have to stop everything I’m doing to see if Bongo has been found. Obsessive ? A bit. But, come on, these days with technology and the internet changing the way people work and interact socially, any means toward a sense of community is a good thing in my opinion.

It’s been two weeks, so I’m sure either Bongo has a new home or he’s in doggy heaven, but I am still thinking positively for Bongo and his mommy.




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